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Divorce Mediation: A Compassionate, Collaborative Approach
Divorce is one of life’s most difficult transitions, but it doesn’t need to be adversarial. For couples who want to move forward with dignity, reduce stress, and reach fair agreements without the burden of a courtroom battle, divorce mediation provides a better path.
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At Better Life Solutions, Mary Collins offers a calm, supportive environment for couples in the Syracuse area who are ready to resolve their divorce respectfully. Through guided conversation, you and your spouse can work toward a personalized agreement that reflects your family’s needs and priorities.
What Is Divorce Mediation?
Divorce mediation is a process where a neutral professional helps spouses communicate, identify concerns, and reach agreements on all aspects of their divorce.
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Mediation takes place privately, outside of court, allowing you and your spouse to remain in control of the outcome.
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Mary Collins combines her background in life coaching, relationship counseling, and mediation to create a process that is both structured and compassionate.
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Instead of leaving decisions in the hands of a judge, mediation empowers you to design a solution that fits your family and future.
Why Choose Mediation Instead of Litigation?
Mediation is often a great fit for couples who:
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Want to avoid the expense, delays, and stress of a litigated divorce.
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Prefer to maintain control of their own decisions.
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Are open to honest communication and good-faith negotiation.
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Need a private, more efficient process.
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Want to prioritize their children’s well-being when making parenting decisions.
What Is Divorce Mediation?
Divorce mediation is a process where a neutral professional helps spouses communicate, identify concerns, and reach agreements on all aspects of their divorce.
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Mediation takes place privately, outside of court, allowing you and your spouse to remain in control of the outcome.
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Mary Collins combines her background in life coaching, relationship counseling, and mediation to create a process that is both structured and compassionate.
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Instead of leaving decisions in the hands of a judge, mediation empowers you to design a solution that fits your family and future.
Why Choose Mediation Instead of Litigation?
Mediation is often a great fit for couples who:
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Want to avoid the expense, delays, and stress of a litigated divorce.
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Prefer to maintain control of their own decisions.
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Are open to honest communication and good-faith negotiation.
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Need a private, more efficient process.
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Want to prioritize their children’s well-being when making parenting decisions.
How the Divorce Mediation Process Works
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Your first meeting with Mary is an opportunity to share your story, ask questions, and understand what mediation will look like. She explains the process in detail, answers your concerns, and helps you decide whether mediation is the right path for your family. This session also sets expectations around communication, confidentiality, and goals for moving forward.
Initial Consultation
Mediation Sessions
Mediation takes place over a series of private sessions, each designed to help you and your spouse work through important aspects of your divorce at a pace that feels manageable. Mary facilitates respectful, balanced conversations to ensure both voices are heard.
Common topics include:
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Financial Transparency – Reviewing household income, assets, debts, and expenses to ensure decisions are made with a full picture of your financial situation.
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Property Division – Discussing how to fairly divide marital property, debts, and belongings.
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Parenting Arrangements – Creating a parenting plan that supports your children’s routines, needs, and emotional well-being.
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Child & Spousal Support – Talking through whether support is needed, what amount is fair, and how it will be handled moving forward.
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Other Considerations – Exploring practical issues such as health insurance, tax filing, retirement accounts, or future decision-making responsibilities.Each session builds toward agreement while focusing on collaboration, not conflict.
Customized Agreements
Since no two families are alike, mediation allows you to shape solutions that truly reflect your circumstances. Mary helps you explore creative options and clarify details so your agreements are realistic, balanced, and workable long-term.
Is Mediation Right for You?
Mediation may be a strong choice if you and your spouse want a respectful, cooperative way to divorce and are willing to work toward solutions together. If you’re unsure, Mary Collins at Better Life Solutions can meet with you to explore your options and help you determine whether mediation is the best path forward.